She is unfortunately. She is an interfering busy body, always terribly well-meaning but actually managing to upset in the process. She's as manipulative and controlling as John in her own way, and if they were people I didn't love (which I do and always have done in spite of things) I wouldn't choose to spend time with them at all.

What gets me and upsets me is I am 51, not 15 and really you would think I have got over such stuff by now?