Just for the record folks....

[sildil]

OK, just for the record, at EOAS Sildil is NOT pregnant, he is NOT part-plains elf. He also does NOT have a missing son. Although he can be a bit daft, and occasionally forgetful, I think he would know anything as important as that, and anyone who knows his character would too.

He has also apologised many, many times for his past behaviour and has moved on. He would appreciate it if others did too.

Comments

[estelle3974.livejournal.com]

Es sends Sildil some hugs, and appologizes for him seeing her.. ahem.. *cough* drinking *cough* earlier, and says she does not think he's pregnant, part plains elf, or has not moved on. She thinks he is a good friend.. and sends him some more hugs.
*hgush*

[sildil]

Thanks Estelle. *hugs*

[morgana-avalon.livejournal.com]

Well, what was I supposed to think, seeing you jellied eels with chocolate? (giggle) Come on, I am sure you can take a little teasing. Take it like a man... hehehehe
bye
Morgana

Re: Sildil

[(Anonymous)]

As someone who was present at that session on the Tagboard, I must disagree with your assessment. I felt uncomfortable with your posts and I have spoken to another person who was also made uncomfortable. Whatever you say you meant, you conveyed overt hostility towards Sildil. Now, you say it was teasing and Sildil should "take it like a man". An expression of regret that someone was hurt would have served better.

I quote the very wise Mistress Rat on this subject in her own LiveJournal:

"No I'm talking about the people who are on a power trip, who get some kinda rush outta pissing you off for their own freaking amusement, then saying; 'Wassa matter, can't you take a joke? My friends all think I'm funny, what's the matter with you? Gee, you offend really easy.'"

I agree with her analysis.

Celebrimbor Curufinion

[mirien.livejournal.com]

As a close friend of Sildil I was also unimpressed by the incident which caused a warm, loving and funny person discomfort, and worse, distress. Comments which cause such are not justified by being meant in fun, and I would hope Sildil will be treated with the dignity and respect friends may expect from one another in the future. I too agree with Mistress Rat's comment and with the sentiments expressed by Celebrimbor.

Mirien.

[ford-of-bruinen.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

Uli

[sildil]

Thanks, I appreciate them

[say-aye.livejournal.com]

I’m sorry, I thought it was just for fun, like the rumors that Nov and Sil were couple.

What Lindele, my son, said he referred to Thranduath, your elf clone son at the Party thread in Haldir’s Realm where Lindele was as well. (I know they did not have a chance to talk to each other yet.) I didn’t know you separated them. I apologize again, I'm so sorry. I didn’t mean to make you discomfort. :.(

: ~bows~ I apologize, my lord.

[sildil]

Oh Say, I didn't realise it was you, and yes, I do keep the characters separate. I was more cross about the whole Sil being pregnant bit actually, as I tried to stop the whole silly thing, but Morgana wouldn't leave it. Don't worry, you didn't upset me. *Hugs*

[say-aye.livejournal.com]

~huggles tightly~

[sildil]

..and we must get Lindele and Du together, though Du seems rather preoccupied with Gil at the moment!